Thursday, March 31, 2011
Spring Training
Markus had practice tonight for baseball. His team, the Red Wings, looks like it will be a good one. There are a few kids on the team that can really hit. I enjoyed sitting outside, watching him play and soaking up the sun. He and Max are upstairs fighting over who knows what as I am writing this. So I am going to go break it up now. Sometimes...
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Bright-On
Markus snowboarding on Friday |
at Brighton |
Doing his toe side turns are easy for him now |
Max took him through the Jedi trees |
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
What are you proud of?
I don’t seem to have anything to post on tonight. No worries. It happens. And usually when it does, I let the blog sit blank for a day.
But on this the last Tuesday of March 2011, I want to hear your thoughts. I want to hear what went well or what you did well so far this month.
For Morgen it’s been a difficult day. The PS3 is broken; he is sick and just discovered that his girlfriend lied to him. He has broken up with her, again, and I think he means it this time. He changed his status on Facebook.
But there have been successes too, Max had his awards ceremony tonight where he received his trophy and Morgen is at a concert with his friend Austin, which he never would have gone to had his PS3 been working and if Brittani was still his girlfriend. But the most glowing, fantastical joy of March 2011 is my boy’s love for each other.
It’s been a long time coming. Kids fight; siblings compete. Three boys create a hug testosterone imbalance at my house (and their little dog Molly is just as wild). But my kids have finally caught the vision of working and laughing together, most of the time. Except for Saturday. Yeah, I almost forgot about that. They were fighting about who wanted to do which chore. Max wanted to still do the dusting and Markus wanted to trade picking up Molly's poo for dusting instead (can you blame him?) but it turned into an all out battle. I wanted to runaway, and I don't just mean in my car. It wasn't my proudest moment. Yeah, except for that I mean they have been better about working together.
Do tell. What has been your greatest success of 2011 so far?
Max's Lightning Trophy |
But on this the last Tuesday of March 2011, I want to hear your thoughts. I want to hear what went well or what you did well so far this month.
For Morgen it’s been a difficult day. The PS3 is broken; he is sick and just discovered that his girlfriend lied to him. He has broken up with her, again, and I think he means it this time. He changed his status on Facebook.
But there have been successes too, Max had his awards ceremony tonight where he received his trophy and Morgen is at a concert with his friend Austin, which he never would have gone to had his PS3 been working and if Brittani was still his girlfriend. But the most glowing, fantastical joy of March 2011 is my boy’s love for each other.
It’s been a long time coming. Kids fight; siblings compete. Three boys create a hug testosterone imbalance at my house (and their little dog Molly is just as wild). But my kids have finally caught the vision of working and laughing together, most of the time. Except for Saturday. Yeah, I almost forgot about that. They were fighting about who wanted to do which chore. Max wanted to still do the dusting and Markus wanted to trade picking up Molly's poo for dusting instead (can you blame him?) but it turned into an all out battle. I wanted to runaway, and I don't just mean in my car. It wasn't my proudest moment. Yeah, except for that I mean they have been better about working together.
Do tell. What has been your greatest success of 2011 so far?
Monday, March 28, 2011
Winding Down
Max had his last Lightning practice for this season tonight. He has his team party tomorrow night at Boondock's and another tournament this weekend. And then baseball starts on Monday. He had tryouts last month and his first practice for the White Sox team was last Wednesday. It's still pretty cold out there for baseball if you ask me, but 'tis the season, I guess. :)
Sunday, March 27, 2011
Had It With Homework
Max told me tonight before he went to bed that he hates school. It’s the homework. I’ll admit it—I am a conscientious objector when it comes to homework. I have had more than a few conversations in which I have questioned the educational value of the assigned work, if not questioned the practice as a whole. My second grader after being gone a full day, comes home with a packet every week. My sixth-grader’s folder usually runs in excess of five to six pages, sometimes up to ten. Which might include, say, mapping all of contemporary Central America, as well as all the major cities and landforms of the ancient Mayan, Incan, and Aztec Empires—and that’s only a portion of a single night’s work. It takes at least an hour for him to do homework, and that doesn’t include his mandatory fifteen minutes of math facts or silent reading time. I know this is the worst of it.
I am troubled by this trend. With the classes I took in child development, I am disturbed by this disconnect between theory and practice. In fact, I regularly have to talk myself out of marching into the principal's office for a polite, factually supported, educational smack down. Children, especially young children, need to be exploring; they need outside time, they need play time, and they need to develop social skills, not spend one more hour with a pencil in their hand or flashcards. When questioned about the homework, principals and teachers say, “Well they need to develop the habit early,” or “The parents expect it.” Really? At seven? The research does not support this and is considered, at best, to be mixed on homework as a whole. Policy seems to be more driven by popular opinion and myths rather than fact.
Morgen doesn't even have this much homework in high school, and even then it is minimal: he does some studying for AP classes, some math problems, a few book reports or projects, but he doesn't have a steady flow of daily hours of busy work. And he is managing just fine in school.
What troubles me is that I don’t see any benefit in it for our children. I do not think they are smarter, or happier, or more creative for it. Homework just seems to be a hassle for everyone—the kids, the parents, and the teachers. It just adds stress and headaches all around. It often feels like schools are trying to copy other cultural models of education, instead of admitting that busy work and skill and drill are not the answers.
What trends have you seen in homework?
I am troubled by this trend. With the classes I took in child development, I am disturbed by this disconnect between theory and practice. In fact, I regularly have to talk myself out of marching into the principal's office for a polite, factually supported, educational smack down. Children, especially young children, need to be exploring; they need outside time, they need play time, and they need to develop social skills, not spend one more hour with a pencil in their hand or flashcards. When questioned about the homework, principals and teachers say, “Well they need to develop the habit early,” or “The parents expect it.” Really? At seven? The research does not support this and is considered, at best, to be mixed on homework as a whole. Policy seems to be more driven by popular opinion and myths rather than fact.
Morgen doesn't even have this much homework in high school, and even then it is minimal: he does some studying for AP classes, some math problems, a few book reports or projects, but he doesn't have a steady flow of daily hours of busy work. And he is managing just fine in school.
What troubles me is that I don’t see any benefit in it for our children. I do not think they are smarter, or happier, or more creative for it. Homework just seems to be a hassle for everyone—the kids, the parents, and the teachers. It just adds stress and headaches all around. It often feels like schools are trying to copy other cultural models of education, instead of admitting that busy work and skill and drill are not the answers.
What trends have you seen in homework?
Saturday, March 26, 2011
Four More Games
Max had four more games today in the 3 on 3 tournament that started yesterday. |
Markus always wants to come watch |
Game # 3 |
The Silver Snipers team |
The Rhino team won it in a shoot out |
Game # 4 |
vs. The Fighting Irish again |
and the Irish won this time |
Max awaiting game # 5... which they lost in a shoot out to the Rhinos team again. Only this time Max was taking the final shot, and Connor blocked his shot. |
Game # 6 vs. the Bruins ended in a loss as well 6-5. |
Friday, March 25, 2011
3 on 3
Max's 3 on 3 tournament started tonight |
His coaches from last year invited him to be on a team called the Silver Snipers |
They played great in the first game and beat the Fighting Irish but only by one point |
Both teams had great players on them, including some of Max's team mates from this year and previous years |
Thursday, March 24, 2011
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Fun, Fun, Fun!
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Spring
As the first day of spring has come and past I am feeling like this winter will really last until at least next month. Markus went to a birthday party for his friend McKay tonight at a place called Airbourne. He thought it was pretty awesome and didn't mind missing his awards night tonight since he already picked up his trophy last night when Max had his awards ceremony. After I finished teaching I went to pick him up and it looked like he had a great time, he was sweating and had a grin from ear to ear. He keeps asking me when he gets to go back! It looks like a fun place to spend these cold nights.
Monday, March 21, 2011
Awards Night
Max holding the "Sportsmanship" plaque |
Austin and Max |
Max receiving his trophy |
with coaches Doug and Abel |
The whole Sioux team |
Between snowboarding this morning with my friend Kelly and skating tonight - I will be sore tomorrow. Still it was fun skating with my boys.
Sunday, March 20, 2011
The Champs
{Some photos of today's games} |
7:00 a.m. game vs. Boise Steelheads |
Victory! |
Championship Game |
1:00 game vs. Idaho Falls Eagles |
Max on Defense |
Since I was helping out in the penalty box I had a front row seat for photos |
Winners! |
The undefeated team for this tournament |
All the team awaiting their medals ceremony |
Final score: Lightning 4 - Idaho Falls 1 |
Max after receiving his medal |
Coach Volker with his son Cody |
Max holding the championship trophy with coaches Shane, Volker and Noel |
The Pee-Wee Champions! |
Markus, Max and the captain of the team, Alex |