"Can I take your photo like that?” We were driving home from a double-winning trip to the rink, Costa vida, rink, and victory over Viewmont. I held my camera in my left hand, facing the side window. I clicked the shutter along the freeway without taking my eyes off the road ahead. “Yeah, you really shouldn’t do this while driving.” “Can I sleep over at Sam's?” “You have to take a shower, either at home or over there.” “Can I just swim? I want to have fun too."