Monday, September 7, 2026

Things I Like


On my 54th birthday

 I love my family 

Markus & Sam

Max & Preslee 

Martin and the cake he bought at Tulie’s

Monet and this Darlin hat she gave me

I like celebrating Labor Day with a day off work

I like Marilee’s hugs and the beautiful sapphire she gave me


During brunch on the patio at Ruth’s Diner, I was thinking about an email I read recently that asked a surpassingly difficult question: What do you like?

Not what are the boys doing
Not what does Martin like
Not what makes sense at work
Not what can everyone agree on

What do I like? 

Where would I go if no one else got to pick?

On a morning bike ride on this beautiful day

What would I do with a birthday afternoon that belongs entirely to me? 

reading in the shade of our trees was just what I needed to rela


What would I learn even if I would never turn it into something useful?

Piano - I just completed the courses in Simply Piano and it felt so good just do something for fun


For years many of my choices have been organized around the people I love and the responsibilities I have had 

I’ve been creating my own inventory of values and characteristics which has been teaching me that the roles I play aren’t the same as who I actually am as far as interests and desires and preferences. That moment when the roles are still there and the woman inside them remembers: the rest is still unwritten